A Client's Story

"I first met Tiffany at an NLP taster session and was impressed by her enthusiasm and positivity. As well as her extensive knowledge of NLP, I became aware of her coaching and counselling services. Later that year, I was looking for a new job and was struggling with confidence issues at interviews. Tiffany gave me some very helpful coaching support and I was thrilled to have landed the job that I'd wanted for many years.

I had never been one to ask for help, believing that you should be able to solve all of your own problems and in fact, priding myself as the "sensible" person that people came to for help from me. I hit upon some major relationship problems which literally rocked my world. I lost my confidence, belief in myself and faith in my own judgment. I had pinned all my hopes on someone who let me down spectacularly. My closest friend had seen it coming all along but I believed it would all come right in the end... it didn't. For months it went around in my head 24/7 and I thought I would never feel any differently... "what did I do wrong? How can I fix it? How can I stop these horrible feelings?"...hopeless.

I did not know where to turn or what to do. I remembered how helpful it had been with the coaching for interviews and approached Tiffany to see if she could help. Telling someone other than a close friend about such personal issues can be scary. Tiffany listened intently and did not judge me at all. At the end of my teary explanation (which I thought was the end of the world).. she smiled and said that she could definitely help me. The relief I felt was amazing. She explained how we could work together to get past this difficult time in my life. At last I could see a way forward.

We then set out a series of sessions, beginning with a "breakthrough session". This is a truly challenging, transforming experience and although not easy, it helps you realise where you need to make major changes. I realised that I was giving away all of my power to others and not standing up for what I wanted or needed, preferring to put their needs before mine all of the time. Over the coming weeks we worked together to help me see things differently and to take different action to help me move closer to the things I want in life.

Recently I have taken some major steps to take my power back and "deliberately create" the life I want. Things I would never have been able to do without Tiffany's support and patience. Seeing where you are going wrong is never a comfortable experience - but to learn and grow you have to align yourself with what you want and believe you can. Sometimes it feels like one step forwards and ten steps back - which is why you need someone as kind, patient, supportive and knowledgeable to guide you towards where you want to be going.

I am work in progress. I'm learning all of the time. It's not easy, but if you keep doing the same things, you keep getting the same results.  With Tiffany's help, I've learnt not to be afraid to go after what you want in life for yourself. There are no mistakes - just opportunities to learn and grow. Thank's to Tiffany's support and encouragement, I landed the job I'd wanted for years and found courage to move away from a relationship with someone who just didn't value me, because I wasn't valuing myself. I'm still in the early stages of coming to terms with moving away from the relationship but I know I can do it because of the tools that Tiffany has given me.

I would whole-heartedly recommend Tiffany to anyone. She has helped me enormously and I could not have coped with the major challenges in my life without her help" - (name withheld)